It seems that just about everyone has a “BFF”, I know this because I get overwhelming posts and pictures on Facebook of people tagging themselves with their “bff.” I have grown in and out of many friendships. Most of the time was for the best. Many of those “friendships” were people I considered my “bff.”

Over time, I realized the meaning of a best friend gets more and more important as you grow up. I believe if you label a person as your “best friend” there are certain things you hold them accountable for, or at least in some situations, expect from them. Such as a certain amount of support when you are going through a hard time, when you realize another friend has backstabbed you or just about any situation in which your best friend should be there more than usual. And, although you have a certain individual that is closer to you than anyone else in the world, things happen. When that person does something to disappoint you, you question their “loyalty.” Right? People make mistakes, wether it is accidental or intentional. I have had many “best friends.” Many times things happen in which YOU feel was wrong for them to do, and you tell yourself “why would she/he do that? We are best friends?” It could be something minimal or something extreme.

Label your morals and make your expectations clear. Your friends should know what you expect from them, as friends and people you surround yourself with. I know certain friends DO NOT hang around with me when they drink or do things I am not okay with. But you know what? I dont mind. I dont want to be around girls that get drunk and act like whores, girls who like attention, do drugs, etc etc. The list can go on and on. If you like to hang out, learn, conversate, educate yourself, try new things, im all up for it! I like having my girls night outs and have one too many cocktails but all with class and good morals. 

I dont want to go through twenty BFFs and be disappointed when they do something I do not like and question their friendship to me, especially someone that close. Instead… I have a group of friends, that I consider closer than others. People I know will be there when I need a hand, people who love me and respect me, and I know are genuine. By taking away the “BFFL” label, I dont deal with disappointments, sadness, or situations where I feel they have to explain themselves or question that “BFF” label.

Hope you all understood what I am trying to say. sometimes my head goes 100MPH and my hands on the keyboard 50MPH. 

Again, this is a PERSONAL OPINION. No need to get hyped up about it. 

Okay.. thats it!

I am tired of hearing everyone make comments about Tijuana/Ensenada/Rosarito or pretty much all of Mexico and the safety of the cities. Especially all of my Mexican friends who complain about how they are scared to go down there. 

1. The UNITED STATES media of course is going to dramatize the issues happening with the cartel and violence war. Every country has drug smuggling and scary issues happening. People should be more scared of traveling to other foreign countries than to visit Mexico. Mexico NEEDS the support of tourism in order to allow many of their beautiful cities to even survive! 

2. If you hang out with people that relate themselves to a certain kind of group that could even ENDANGER you to any kind of violence or danger…maybe you should find better friends. DO YOU REALLY THINK PEOPLE ARE HAVING SHOOTING RAGES AND KILLING INNOCENT PEOPLE IN BROAD DAY LIGHT JUST BECAUSE…PAY ATTENTION TO THE STATEMENT..IF PEOPLE WERE REALLY GETTING KILLED JUST BECAUSE, THOSE CITIES WOULD’VE HAVE BEEN ABANDONED BY THEIR OWN PEOPLE.  I find it ignorant when people say “thousands of people have been killed for no reason” LOL i find it HIGHLY plausible that the people who have been killed were involved in the wrong lifestyle. That is the consequence of taking a risk and being a part of something YOU KNEW could hurt you or your family. ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR POOR DECISIONS. 

3. You know someone that knew someone who got killed or treated wrong in Mexico or your friends cousin got kidnapped and held ransom for money? Yes this does happen a lot in Mexico. If your family is known to have a lot of money in Mexico and/or have ties and/or issues with the wrong people, this can happen. This does not mean just because you go to Oxxo to buy a bag of Ruffles a random car is going to pool over and rapture you into their creeper rape van. Again, people must take the proper precautions just like you would anywhere else in the world.

It bothers me that people just label Mexico a certain way. From my travels, I can say that the Mexican society has been the one to treat me with open arms, Mexico is filled with people with beautiful manners and education and are known to help in any way they can. All I ask is that to remember that all these things can and are happening ALL OVER THE WORLD. There is human trafficking in foreign countries, corrupted governments, drug wars,etc. If anything, I say it is shameful to be apart of a country like the U.S. YES i said it, we are greedy, selfish, cold, and our government does anything to profit, we should be the ones that are ashamed that our children’s education levels are in a huge slump compared to other countries in the world. This is not just a Mexico issue it is a GLOBAL issue. 

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A$AP in the houuuuse

Do we live as in a reflection of who we truly are? Or how we would like people to think we are. Having my reality show DVR night is unraveling, I feel many viewers feel that lifestyle is NORMAL, therefore think they need to achieve certain things in life to feel, accomplished. I dont know how many times I have thought I needed to do check off certain things off my list in order to be on the right track?

to be honest, I dont know anyone who knows the answer to where and what is the right track to success and real and genuine happiness. 

M.O.B

I’ve been starting to really listen to Girls, if Artic Monkeys and Oasis did a song together I feel it would be something like this? They have awesome songs, check em out! 

Earlier today I received a message from an anonymous sender. I believe his goal was to hurt my feelings, he did not succeed. You my friend are a sole example of why society is the way it is. I am not the kind of person to put who you are on blast but maybe you are mad at yourself or have low self-esteem, who depends on hurting other people in order to feel better about yourself.

This is the message I received:

“u are so fucking annoying with your posts and shit you do. you and your stupid hipster friends think you are too cool to hang out with people. who gives a fuck if you are into art and all that stupid shit. stop hanging out with all your stupid fag friends. ur boyfriend looks stupid wearing all his crooks and castles with all his stupid hip hop hipster underground street shit. no one cares about your stupid hippie concerns about animals and shit. no one cares what you listen to either with your currensy, who the fuck is that anyway. shut up and die already. oh yeah and stop being two faced about weed and drugs all your friends do it and you swear that your against it”

AFTER I READ THIS, I DIDNT KNOW IF I SHOULD BE UPSET, SAD, ANGRY, ETC. I TOOK A FEW DEEP BREATHS AND THOUGHT….THIS PERSON MUST HAVE NO LIFE AND A LOT OF HATE IF THEY JUST WROTE THIS ESSAY TO ME, I MUST KNOW THIS PERSON IF THEY KNOW ALL THESE THINGS ABOUT ME,  YOU DONT KNOW MY FRIENDS, IF I HANG OUT WITH THEM INSTEAD OF OTHERS IS BECAUSE I LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE AND WE HAVE THINGS IN COMMON, YES I AM AGAINST DRUGS BUT ITS BECAUSE OF THINGS THAT HAVE HAPPENED IN MY PERSONAL LIFE. I DONT CARE WHO YOU ARE I WILL GIVE YOU SHIT AnD NAG TO YOU IF YOU ARE DOING STUPID DRUGS THAT CAN ENDANGER YOUR LIFE.

SO WHAT IF IM INTO ART, MUSIC, BOOKS, OR ANYTHING THAT ALLOWS ME TO LEARN? WHO GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO HOLD IT AGAINST ME, I DONT THINK YOU PAY MY BILLS, RENT, OR PUT FOOD IN MY TABLE.  MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET OUT AND EXPLORE AND CULTURE YOURSELF SO YOU ARENT THE REAL IGNORANT PERSON IN THIS SITUATION. 

I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU, AND I HOPE YOU FIND PEACE WITHIN YOURSELF IN ORDER TO SPREAD LOVE IN THIS SOCIETY, WHICH IS WHAT THIS WORLD NEEDS. PEOPLE LIKE YOU IS WHAT SPREAD NEGATIVITY AND HATE IN THIS WORLD. I HOPE YOU CONFRONT ME IN PERSON SO I CAN SHED SOME LIGHT ON TO YOUR DARK AND SAD WORLD. PEACE & LOVE MY FRIEND. 

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